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Art of Motherhood

28th Aug 2010 | Subscribe via RSS

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I have not written for three weeks because I have been having a baby. It was not the easiest of births; passion and fear rather than a Disney arrival.

I did get to experience all the different types of births that one can have. I got an epidural that worked on one side only. And the joys of lots of pushing followed by a cesarean. The general anesthetic was the cherry on the pie.

There are deeply personal parts that are entwined in this great moment when I became two people. Do I want to throw those parts of me in black and white on to the internet? I am glad I got to write about my chicken, I can hide behind her confliction.

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Is motherhood; writing and making art about it; a worthy pursuit? Is it little self indulgent, domestic, and unprofessional? Or is that my paternalistic values degrading my sex?

I do not know what the answer is but I really want to explore my new mothering role. It is not just sweet and cuddly, it is fear and philosophy. His basic needs to be held and fed, warm and secure teach me how to live my life.

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7 Responses

georgie
28th Aug 2010

Congratulations Amy, I did wonder if your blog absence was down to baby. Hope you’re healing well.
Have you read A Life’s Work by Rachel Cusk? The way she writes about motherhood is amazing, so honest, so different to all the other accounts I’ve read – I saw echoes of it in your blog today.

Soraya
30th Aug 2010

I think motherhood is a domestic thing to make art about, but the domestic is really not something easy or indulgent to consider. I love Volver by Almodovar, which to me is about mother love, like lots of his films.

Your clear-sighted gaze at this new experience is remarkable. I love the drawings – they really give the sense of a human being looking at another human being with respect for an experience of discovery that we can only barely imagine.

Sarah
31st Aug 2010

Hi Amy – thank you for sharing so generously. I love your drawings too, he look’s amazing – congratulations. I think to make art truthfully about motherhood is so courageous and generous and just a brilliantly worthwhile thing to be doing. And as an artist what choice do you have – but to authentically create in response to visceral experiences?

Simone pereira hind
01st Sep 2010

Congratulations Amy. You’ve just entered a new world. You may as well make work about it if that’s what currently motivates you. Not self-indulgent, not unprofessional. Real, raw life. Good luck with your work as a parent and an artist.

Amy Bernays
18th Feb 2011

how great to read these comments, it is now 6 months later and I just love the little man in my life. thank you all for the encouragement. and Georgie for the tip about A Life’s Work by Rachel Cusk, i’ll check it out.

Rosio Levesque
26th Sep 2011

should post more often great read

Krysta
26th Nov 2011

Great post I should say.. Straightforward but yet entertaining and partaking liked reading this post!

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